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今天早上,望出窗外,白茫茫的一片,昨晚下了整夜雪,趕忙穿上頂厚的冬天衣服,出街角的巴士站候車。街道上雪深路滑,所有的車輛,都減低度速,以免發生意外,巴士也遲了到埗,車內冷氣和人氣混在一起,結了冰的玻璃窗,封鎖了对外界的視線。午膳時間,大風雪仍是繼續,多倫多机場,有很多班机已被取消,美國紐約州和東北已被大風雪癱瘓。我穿上大衣,拿了相机出街外,冒著零下20度的酷寒,除脫了手套,拍了很多張不同的雪景,樂極忘形,不夠十分鐘,我的手指已感到麻痹冰凍,沒有感覺,不是好現象,趕忙衝往最近的室內商場取暖。書店老板抬頭望我,知我是避寒,不是買書,也給我一個同情心的微笑,低頭繼續做他的工作。
整個下午和晚上,雪仍是不停的下著,或許有很多人会抱怨,天不做美,不能出外慶祝情人節。但在我來說,情人節大風雪,也就代表愛情就像天氣,有陰有晴,有冷有熱。好天氣的時候,就要珍惜那美好的時光,到大風雪到的時候,就只能靠心中那一小點溫暖的回憶,讓我們渡過那困境。各位心內打著大風雪,戓感到寒冷的友人,我可以保証,再過数月,春天是会一定回來的!!!
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yes spring after winter :)
Thanks for your warm comfort. "家園青草綠柔柔" I remember that. However, I just feel like being dumped, by family, by friends, by my loved one. To love is so difficult and so painful. Really feeling cold. What will happen when spring comes?
簡直是兩個世界, 我呢度接近20度!
San Wen Ji: Yeah, and while we have winter, we might as well enjoy it too !! Make the best out of our time.
Xiao Zhu: A garden will either out-grow with weeds or wither if nobody is taking good care of it. You will have to take that initiative. Be strong and rely less on other people for external love. Perhaps you need more independence and "self love" to nurture your confidence and keep yourself warm. When spring comes, you will need to clean up and keep your own sweet garden nice and green - for yourself and nobody else. Perhaps further down the road, you will be able to share part of your inner sanctuary with another person. But for now, it seems you need to take care of yourself, first and foremost.
Vicky: 您処是北半球,雖然是亞熱帶,但冬天也会有20度?!真是氣候大轉變了!
感謝你真切的忠告。經過連年"征戰"，也早早明白到無論遇到甚麼問題，無論身邊有甚麼人與否，到最終，都是要靠自己的。生命是自己的；而事實上身邊已經很久很久沒有可以依靠的對象了。只是每次在這些過程之中，都總有不同的階段要經過，在受控的情況之下，總得要用一些方法去平衡自己；低落的時候就低落一下，可助造就再起的反彈力。當然，過程中能得到友儕如你的提醒和支持，那就更有力量了。感激！
Xiao Zhu: 我們大家走江湖的,就真是要磨練自己的意志,要有那獨立能力,受控而又不受控,靜如處子,動如脫免。人生過程,就像歷史一樣,您不是第一個,也不是最後一個,但是否能受環境時間考驗,或屬半途而廢那一撮,就是自己决定的了。我們大家都需要互相幫助和鼓勵啊!!
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