Tuesday, May 18, 2010

白頭人送黑頭人 / A Parent's Nightmare

五月十七日早晨,他在朦朧中聽到电臺新聞報告,一個駕自行車的學生哥,在嘉靈道 Carling Avenue 被車撞斃,警方正找尋死者的親屬。


是自己的孩子嗎? B仔的自行車還在屋前嗎? 他出外有戴保護頭盔嗎? 電話鈴鈴地響了,一陣無名的恐懼, 濕透一身的冷汗 !!!





xiao zhu said...


新鮮人 said...


readandeat said...


Haricot 微豆 said...

Xiao Zhu:

>> ... 如果這個是自己、或是自己的親人會怎樣!

Here are my thoughts:

* If there is something a person wants to say to another, say it now.
* The sudden death will be shocking and heart-breaking, but time will heal slowly (altho in the case of a child's death, a parent will never get over the pain).

Haricot 微豆 said...


>> ...唉

One of the reasons why I wrote the blog article.

Haricot 微豆 said...


>> ... 好怕聽到這種新聞。

For parents with young kids, this type of news is nightmarish and too close for comfort. Many have learnt to block out the possibility - just like the father in the story.

啤酒花™_J said...

I had been tru the process just last year...my brother. Luckily he survived and until now still not fully recovered, after a year's treatment, dressing etc and its ongoing. For the moment, we got the news, things changed and we are still going tru the changes. I did not say much about this incident...even up to now cos things are still difficult to cope. Sometimes i just set aside all issues...pretending I am ok.

Haricot 微豆 said...

啤酒花™_J: I am sorry to hear abt your brother's incident and wish him a speedy recovery. Coping is difficult but necessary and I admire your courage to deal with the situation.

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