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新鮮人在網誌【讓人心甜的名字! 】談及『... 你和你的另一半是怎樣稱呼 ...』之時,梁公子把話題一轉,址到做愛一事,我多口說:『以前女人唔准出声 ....』但俺不是上一代人,又怎会知道以前女人閨房之事呢?究竟「唔准出声」這話從何說起,且聽我在此解釋。
話說在維多利亞女皇時代,男人出外打天下,效忠大不列顛帝國,有空在家時,就当然要証實自己是大丈夫,是一家之主,女人是附屬品,所以男人要乜乜物物,做妻子的除了用阿媽教落的几個籍口之外(例如「大姨媽」丶頭痛等),實在沒法拒絕,於是乎只能閉眼接受,希望丈夫只是3秒鐘熱度,快早敗兵完事。所以在那不厭其煩的心情下,女人又怎会有欢樂之声可言。再者,当時保守派当权,女流之軰不能露膊露腿,更莫論能燕語髙歌,仙樂飄飄。所以「唔出声」是以前女人的「無夸」,也是社会大众接受的「貞德」。
各位讀者,以上可不是我順口開河的,有書為証: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Close_your_eyes_and_think_of_England
"... This was an expression supposedly used in the United Kingdom during the Victorian Era. Traditionally, it was advice given to a woman - usually from a mother to her daughter about to be married - about dealing with sexual intercourse with her husband.
The origins of the phrase are unclear, but it is generally attributed to Lady Alice Hillingdon (1857-1940), supposedly writing in her journal in 1912:
... I am happy now that George calls on my bedchamber less frequently than of old. As it is, I now endure but two calls a week, and when I hear his steps outside my door I lie down on my bed, close my eyes, ... and think of England."
如我在新鮮人処作結論: 『很多人的生丶心理,和行為舉止,都会受当代法律丶習俗丶價值覌所影響或控制。』而愛國的英格蘭女人,也就是一個令人無言以对的例子。
Related Links / Photo Credit:
(1) 新鮮人【讓人心甜的名字! 】
(2) Wikipedia "Women in the Victoria Era"
6 comments:
我諗中國古代都係咁,
不過中國唐代思想開放好多,
唔知會係點樣呢?
可惜很少這些的記載啊! =p
我忽然又諗到:
如何兩公婆做愛,
做得開心嘅話,
以前啲女人係未都唔可以"出聲"呢?
你知有啲嘢係控制唔到嘛,
好奇八啩吓!
人類的雌性即是女人是狡猾的動物，
聰明的女人會扮蠢令她的男人威威，
如水之歡雲雨之時一樣可以扮哂嘢，
增加男人的英雄感去取悅她的男人！
電影 When Harry met Sally
Harry 和 Sally 兩人在 cafe內討論時，
Sally 就有這個 classic scene
當然男人梗會話她的女人是真的，冇花冇假，
只怪男人總是愛認勁！認叻！認威！
咁咪畀人類的雌性，騙足一世囉！
新鮮人: 遠如唐代,近如戰前和戰後的上海和香港,我相信每一個地方的思想丶風土丶人情,都会隨時代歲月而轉變。中國戰乱頻多,如有民間的記載,我想是毀失的多了。
新鮮人: 哈哈!!上一代可能会答:『咪生咗你出嚟囉,問咁多做乜?!!』
Inner Space:
That classic scene of "When Harry Met Sally" was both funny and telling !!! In nature, most females are responsible for propagation of the species, while the males are there for a one-shot deal. So, perhaps that's why women are "smarter" in the game. They have to !!
(.... ducking tomatoes being thrown at me from the male readers)
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